The Biggest myth of self-help

“We can’t help everyone, but everyone can help someone.” — Ronald Reagan

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In today’s society, self-help has become a billion-dollar industry. From books to podcasts, the market is flooded with advice on how to be happier, more successful, and more fulfilled. But the truth is, the idea of “self-help” is a myth. No one can truly do it alone.

The idea of self-help suggests that we can improve ourselves without the help of others. We are told to pull ourselves up by our bootstraps and to rely solely on our own willpower and determination. But the reality is that we all need help and support along the way.

“The strongest people are not those who show strength in front of us but those who win battles we know nothing about.” — Jonathan Harnisch

Think of a time when you accomplished something significant in your life. Perhaps you landed a dream job, graduated from college, or ran a marathon. Did you achieve that goal entirely on your own? Or did you have support along the way?

Chances are, you had mentors, friends, family, or coaches who helped you along the way. Perhaps they…